Category: 30 Day Submission

All About the Dom/Domme Demand that the sub pleases you sexually and praises you. Don’t let them have any pleasure, do not let them get off, do not let them stop until you are satisfied! you can continue to add this from now on

Worship Day Its time for the Sub to worship you…. pick something you want the sub to worship. Make sure they know what you want to be worshipped and how. Make sure you tell them if they are doing a good job. Feel free to demand worship from this point forward.

Denial or Orgasm day (Dom/Domme Choice) You have been working up your sub over the last few days. Give them and edging/orgasm denial session or let them orgasm too. Just remind them of the rules and your authority while doing so. Remember to keep reminding them from today that you will always make it worth […]

Punishment discussion/planning Day Take the Day today to discuss punishments for your sub. Remind them of all the good they have done, however, you’re serious about the change in dynamic. They do not get any input. They only get to agree with what you decide. Make sure they won’t enjoy these and most importantly be […]

Communication Day Discuss with each other how the week felt. What you thought worked and what didn’t. Be open and honest. Make sure you go back to why you wanted to start BDSM with your SO and to discuss if it is helping. Make sure you discuss to see if it is helping with confidence. […]

Spanking Day Hopefully by now your sub may be starting to learn what you want and when from your demands, But we need to work on punishments and testing Limits. Spanking may or may not be a good punishment for you/your sub, However, testing the sub’s limits to see how much pain they can tolerate […]

Domestic Service Day You Sub Does anything and Everything you want around the house today… Don’t forget to let them know it will be worth their while. Remind them of yesterdays test. Remember to inspect their work too. If it isn’t up to standard, Remind them, or punishment for not complying and make them do […]

Adult Shop adventure Take a trip to the adult store with your sub. Make them pick something out that makes them uncomfortable. Think a soft limit here, or something embarrassing. Make them buy it. Feel free to guide them to actually get something you want over what they pick out, remember it’s about you. Make […]

All About the Dom/Domme Demand that the sub pleases you sexually and praises you. Don’t let them have any pleasure, do not let them get off, do not let them stop until you are satisfied! Don’t forget to tell them How you want to be pleased and start getting rough with your sub. Grab their […]

Introduce Chastity/Masturbation Denial Hopefully by now, your sub is starting to get the idea. Control that further by not allowing any masturbation or chastity if you feel the need. You should at this point be very in control of your sub. Start teasing them about how you’re going to finally get them off for being […]