Push the Limits
Go Back to your limits list you created. Find what your sub has a soft limit for and that you are comfortable to explore, push that boundary a little bit. Remind of who is in charge. Assert your dominance over this. Punishment may be vital here. If your sub isn’t uncomfortable and nearly saying the slow down safe word, it wasn’t really a soft limit, was it? Also, trust is vital. The sub must trust you around limits…if they don’t trust you, they won’t worship you, you need to make them feel safe here