Tag: BDSM

Predicament bondage sub must choose between pain and pleasure (i.e. nipple clamps tied to a fixed point that she must pull in order to position herself for a vibrator to stimulate her clit)

Body writing Dom and sub take turns writing on sub’s body. Whoever finds the most humiliating phrase wins.

Forced orgasms roll a dice to see how long it goes on (multiply the roll by 10)

Limit stretching Find something that’s not a hard no for the sub, but one they’re very tentative about and explore the edges of that, see if they can push through and find pleasure in what they once feared.

Reddit story telling (sub goes on a reddit forum and tells a story of one of your sessions from their point of view)

Tickle torture Tied up and tickled relentlessly

Spanking Roulette Cane/flogger/whip/spoon/etc – find six instruments of spanking/whipping. Roll a die once. Whichever number corresponds with the instrument is the one you use. Roll it again for number of lashes.

Tit torture dealer’s choice as to method

Craft day build a sex toy out of materials you have around the house (cut up a belt to make a cat o’ nine tails, create a bondage board out of spare plywood, etc. – do this together)

Twenty day whipping threshold 20 minutes or 20 very hard lashes. Dealer’s choice.