Share a wild fantasy with each other by email during the day, then play it out at night.
Find a night when you can take your time. Monday and Wednesdays are no-go because the kids have karate, and Tuesday and Thursday nights are Chloe’s ballet practice. Alternate Fridays are Girl scouts, Saturdays are booked up with Jackson’s soccer travel, and every other Sunday evening is community chorus. So… next Friday? Hang on, let me get the calendar, I think we have a dinner.