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4. Bring in a third party Yes, threesomes are a big step, so read these threesome stories before you take the leap, and make sure to discuss some ground rules with your partner.

5. Have phone sex Yeah, seeing each other is great. But hearing your partner’s sexy AF voice on the other end of the phone, telling you all the naughty things they’d be doing to you right now? Also great. (P.S. Here’s exactly how to have phone sex without feeling awkward.)

6. Watch porn together Watching something sexual can be the perfect way to get *in the mood* for actual sex. Choose a video together, or each of you can pick your own to share. Need ideas? Check out some female-friendly porn sites here.

7. Give anal sex a shot Yes, butt stuff can be fun if you do it the right way. Take things very slow, have looots of lube ready to use, and enjoy.

8. Try out different kinds of lubes Speaking of lube, there are tons of lubes out there: all-natural, silicone-based, CBD, you name it. Try adding different ones to your repertoire (each kind adds something different), and see which you like best.

9. Play with ice cream Use ice cream for temperature play by taking spoonfuls and circling them around each other’s erogenous zones. Plus, it’ll taste good (and look super sexy) when you lick it off.

10. Role play It’s fun to be someone else for a little while. Ask your partner what kind of role play they might enjoy and choose a night to act out your parts. And no, it doesn’t need to be super complicated. Like, maybe you two could pretend to be strangers that just met at […]

11. Buy a sexy board game Game night, but make it hot. Don’t know where to find one? No worries. Women’s Health compiled a pretty kick-ass list of sexy board games that’ll heat up the bedroom.

12. Get wet and wild with shower sex Shower sex isn’t as simple as it looks, but if you’re willing to give it a try, the payoff can be major. Start out by getting hot and steamy under the showerhead while kissing, then you can move things to the bedroom when you wanna finish.

13. Try ASMR sex What is ASMR sex, exactly? The short version is that it’s all about finding an auditory or visual trigger that turns you on.