Or pull their hair. Don’t underestimate the appeal of a firm tug on your partner’s hair. The next time they’re going down on you, run your fingers through their hair and get a grip. Give it a gentle pull and see how they like it. The trick to making it feel good rather than hurt […]
Category: 31 Kinky Ideas
31 Kinky Ideas (# 10 ) : Spank them.
Spank them. Spanking can be hot. That being said, it’s best not to give a whop out of nowhere that will just startle your partner and kill the moment. Next time you’re having that kind of passionate, animalistic sex, give them a light smack on the butt cheek with an open palm. If they seem […]
31 Kinky Ideas (# 9 ) : Dress up.
Dress up. If you’re living your days in sweats, dressing up right before you get naked can be a good way to get yourself in the mood. And why not try a uniform? If you’re looking to get out of a rut, dressing up as a doctor or a French maid could be a fun […]
31 Kinky Ideas (# 8 ) : Try ultra-relaxing foreplay.
Try ultra-relaxing foreplay. Two words for you: naked massage. In these stressful times, we could all use some extra TLC, so offer your partner a sensual massage. For this you need nothing more than the lotion you already keep by your bedside—and to be prepared for things to heat up quickly. She Gets a Massage […]
31 Kinky Ideas (# 7 ) : Nibble and bite.
Nibble and bite. Nibbling and biting during sex is a sign of passion. It’s a little naughty and a lot hot—the perfect way to show how turned on you are. While you’re making out, test the waters to see whether your partner is okay with a little teeth by gently nibbling on their lip. You […]
31 Kinky Ideas (# 6 ) : Use a blindfold.
Use a blindfold. You can take that same tie and use it as a blindfold, shielding your partner’s eyes from your next moves, or taking away your own sight while he or she goes to town on your body. When you block off one sense, your body intensifies its others. Touch will feel extra electric […]
31 Kinky Ideas (# 5 ) : Tie them up.
Tie them up. Maybe you’ve backed off the idea of bondage because buying handcuffs or other restraints is just too freaky for you. If that’s the case, try something a little more subtle, like a tie, belt, or a scarf. Playfully wrap it around their wrists and secure them to a chair and go down […]
31 Kinky Ideas (# 4 ) : Send a racy text.
Send a racy text. Be as brave as your vocabulary permits. You can send a simple, suggestive message—”I can’t wait to touch you tonight,” for example—or something more bold, such as a step-by-step guide to what you’ll do to them the second they walk through the door. Need ideas? We’ve got ’em.
31 Kinky Ideas (# 3 ) : Get icy.
Get icy. We’re not talking about the old cliché of popping an ice cube in your mouth before giving oral sex. (Though if that does it for you, by all means go for it!) Ice cubes are the cheapest sex toy around, perfect for trailing over your partner’s body when things get steamy for a […]
31 Kinky Ideas (# 2 ) : Talk dirty.
Talk dirty. Turn up the heat on your dirty talk by describing the sensations you’re feeling, giving gentle encouraging directions, and telling them what you want to do to them before you do it. You may also find that whispering about how a touch feels or being forward with what you want enhances what you’re […]