Category: 30 Day Challenge

Share fantasies today by e-mail (not your work e-mail). Pick one to play out. (Bonus play: costumes)

Have sex without intercourse, instead using your hands, body, toys or mouths. You both must orgasm.

Watch an adult film together — a movie or 30 minutes minimum. (Bonus play: Masturbate or have sex while watching. Start with something safe if you have never watched before. Find a good couples video.)

Add toys into your love making — vibrators, penis rings, beads and ticklers. This session is all about finding what works. (Bonus play: use a We-Vibe or other shared sex toys.)

Try an advanced-level Kama Sutra move. Find two or three challenging positions to try. Again, avoid injury.

Each partner brings themselves to an orgasm seated in front of their partner on the bed; same time is ideal. Share what you are feeling. Use what you like. Observe and learn.

Find a new place in the house for sex — kitchen, bath, living room, chair, sofa, floor, etc.

She brings him to orgasm with no intercourse — hands, mouth, and body only. (Bonus play: use breasts or feet to bring partner to orgasm)

Let her dominate. Tell your partner what you want. (Bonus play: ropes or handcuffs)