Author: Chastity

8. Try out different kinds of lubes Speaking of lube, there are tons of lubes out there: all-natural, silicone-based, CBD, you name it. Try adding different ones to your repertoire (each kind adds something different), and see which you like best.

9. Play with ice cream Use ice cream for temperature play by taking spoonfuls and circling them around each other’s erogenous zones. Plus, it’ll taste good (and look super sexy) when you lick it off.

10. Role play It’s fun to be someone else for a little while. Ask your partner what kind of role play they might enjoy and choose a night to act out your parts. And no, it doesn’t need to be super complicated. Like, maybe you two could pretend to be strangers that just met at […]

11. Buy a sexy board game Game night, but make it hot. Don’t know where to find one? No worries. Women’s Health compiled a pretty kick-ass list of sexy board games that’ll heat up the bedroom.

12. Get wet and wild with shower sex Shower sex isn’t as simple as it looks, but if you’re willing to give it a try, the payoff can be major. Start out by getting hot and steamy under the showerhead while kissing, then you can move things to the bedroom when you wanna finish.

13. Try ASMR sex What is ASMR sex, exactly? The short version is that it’s all about finding an auditory or visual trigger that turns you on.

14. Moan a lot during sex Did you know that moaning during sex can make you have a better orgasm? When you moan your throat opens, your breathing slows, and your pelvic floor muscles relax, which can lead to a totally mind-blowing finish. The more you know!

15. Take up ice play It’s like that whole ice cream trick, except with ice cubes. A bonus? Cubes give you more control over where you run those ice-cold temps along the skin, and there’s way less cleanup involved.

16. Do all the dirty talk If dirty talk isn’t already a part of your routine, it’s time to add it in ASAP. Dirty talk may feel unnatural at first, but once you get into it, it makes everything you’re doing that much sexier.

17. Have sex via webcam If you’re in separate places (or if you just feel like being in separate rooms, hah), try giving your partner a sexy show on FaceTime (or whatever video app you use). You guys can masturbate at the same time, take turns, talk about all the things you’d do to each […]