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Have some strap-on fun. Getting a strap-on and penetrating your partner is a whole new experience that switches up the dynamic and can lead to some sex sessions you’ll never forget. If you’re into the idea, talk to your partner. As always, healthy open communication is key. He Wears the Strap On She Wears the […]

Get steamy in the shower. Start things off (and maybe even finish them) in the shower. Just be careful of slippage.

Don’t forget the pleasure of oral sex. Sometimes we get to the main event way too quickly—oral sex can be a great way to slow things down and prioritize your pleasure.

Try new positions. We all fall into routines, even when it comes to sex positions. Shake things up. Need some ideas? We’ve got plenty of suggestions for creative sex positions.

Play with sex toys. Hit up a sex shop or online sex store and stock up on naughty goodies. From edible panties to vibrators, there are plenty of options that will spice things up and help you get your freak on. Not sure where to start without getting a bunch of creepy ads? We’ve got […]

Experiment with role play. There’s a reason role play is one of the most common sex fantasies: It gives you a chance to let loose and act in a way that you wouldn’t necessarily behave ordinarily, and that’s incredibly freeing. Whether it’s boss and secretary, doctor and patient, student and professor, or anything else, role […]

Leave the windows open. Engage in a little light exhibition by leaving the blinds open or the window cracked, depending on how far you want to take it. The chance that someone could see you—or maybe just hear you—makes things all the more exciting.

Drip hot oil on your partner with a massage candle. Don’t be scared: Massage candles are safe and will not burn you. They’re specifically formulated to heat up and turn into a sensuous oil that you can rub all over your partner (just not inside your partner—it’s not meant to be used as lube). After […]

Let your partner watch you masturbate. This definitely requires some boldness, but putting on a show by letting your significant other watch you pleasure yourself can be deeply empowering. Look straight into their eyes while you do it, and it won’t be long before they’re begging you to let them take over. She Watches Him […]

Get loud. Don’t be afraid to express yourself. There’s an incredible freedom in vocalizing what you want and how good you’re feeling—and your lover is definitely going to be all ears.