Asked by: Max

Our FLR is an everyday, all day thing… our relationship has always been one where I took care of everything – financially, phone calls, Dr appts etc. We do make big decisions together, where to live, buying a car and that kind of thing. Usually I have the final say in most things though.

Asked by: Anonymous

Just so you know FLR & D/s don’t need to go together but yes part of our relationship is D/s. Our sexual relationship is fully D/s and it will only trickle into daily life if we talked about it specifically where my Dominance will be an entire day thing. Hope that makes sense.

Asked by: Anonymous

Some people are not naturally dominant so to have a FLR they do need to work at it, take it slow, step by step. Once we realized what our relationship was and that chastity was to be a part of it we created an agreement. That’s been a huge help in getting things to go smoother and “work.” It’s still a work in progress and probably always will be. We will continue to go over our agreement to change things. We have added things, adjusted things and taken things out. It’s not a perfect science, there is no one way to do things… it’s what works for a particular couple and no two relationships will look the same.

Asked by: Anonymous

Of course I always come first, but I do not think you are talking about me are you hon?

Chastity most definitely didn’t come first. I’m a control freak hehe. We had gotten to a bad place in our relationship one that we never discussed before, we worked hard to repair it and in the repairing made a promise to be honest and share every fantasy. Through our experimentation we found that chastity was kind of fun for both of us.