31 Kinky Ideas (# 30 ) : Find pleasure in the fridge.

Find pleasure in the fridge. Bringing food into the bedroom can be oh so hot. Make an ice cream sundae, but rather than top your vanilla confection with hot sauce or whipped cream, rub a dab on your lips or neck and ask your lover to lick it off. As things heat up, paint some […]

31 Kinky Ideas (# 29 ) : Lounge in lingerie.

Lounge in lingerie. Wearing underthings that make you feel confident and sexy is the ultimate self-turn-on. Even if you’re wearing nothing but sweats around the house, slip on something that makes you ready for action underneath—it will be a sexy surprise for both of you.

31 Kinky Ideas (# 28 ) : Have sex on your period.

Have sex on your period. Period sex doesn’t have to be off-limits. In fact, there are plenty of benefits to having period sex—including increased lubrication and heightened sensitivity. If you’ve never tried it before, or are worried about a mess, start in the shower.

31 Kinky Ideas (# 27 ) : Forgo panties.

Forgo panties. This is one of those simple but effective kinky sex ideas: Just forget to wear your underwear and casually mention it to your partner. Or, better yet, take them off in the bathroom at dinner and when you return the table, discreetly hand them to your partner with a sly smile. Check please.

31 Kinky Ideas (# 26 ) : Get down in public.

Get down in public. Whether it’s in an elevator, an airplane, dressing room, public bathroom, or the back alley of a bar, there’s something inherently kinky about getting it on where you’re not supposed to. To fake the feeling at home, do it in front of the window.

31 Kinky Ideas (# 23 ) : Make a home movie.

Make a home movie. Smartphones make it easier than ever to make an X-rated home movie. Even if you watch it once and delete it, you’ll always have the experience in your memory. Just make sure to keep digital safety in mind—and that any content stays exclusively on your phone. Maybe get daring and post […]

31 Kinky Ideas (# 21 ) : Have some strap-on fun.

Have some strap-on fun. Getting a strap-on and penetrating your partner is a whole new experience that switches up the dynamic and can lead to some sex sessions you’ll never forget. If you’re into the idea, talk to your partner. As always, healthy open communication is key. He Wears the Strap On She Wears the […]